Kitty—She Stole People’s Hearts and was the Ultimate Jetsetter

By Karen Fawcett

She appeared at the kitchen door of our Provence home and even though the last thing I wanted or needed was a cat, she adopted us.

Perhaps the plate of milk and a little bit of tuna persuaded her she’d found some suckers. But, there was no way we could have a feline friend dependent upon us.

We traveled too much, plus we commuted between Paris and Provence. Stability was not our middle name. There wasn’t even a reason to name this cat since there was no way she was going to become a family member.  As a result, she was called Kitty—even though a friend named her Voilà. I was having none of it since she wasn’t a keeper.  Or so I thought.

After a ten-month-long absence, we returned to Provence to be greeted by a striped cat with a crook in her tail waiting in the parking lot. My husband was delighted.  I was not. On top of that, she was feral and would drag snakes to the door as a present. Plus the carcasses of birds she snared. For someone who’s a city person, this was too much.

Fast forward—Kitty wormed her way into our lives and into our home.  Before I knew it, she hiccupped and produced four offspring. Thank goodness Sarah Fox, Executive Editor of Bonjour Paris and her three-year-old daughter were visiting and took over supervising the miracle of birth. I knew it was natural. But it was too natural for me, especially at 5:00 a.m.

When I took her to the vet to be spayed, have her shots, and so on and on, I knew I was trapped. By this time, Kitty was adapting to being an indoor cat and liked sleeping under an electric blanket when the mistral was blowing.

Perhaps Kitty liked Provence, but I didn’t love it during the winter when it was cold and the wind was roaring down the Rhone Valley. Could Kitty adjust to being an apartment cat? After buying a carrier, she hopped in it and we both started commuting by TGV between Avignon and Paris.  Her ticket cost five Euros.  She was a trooper and never made a peep throughout the entire trip. When she was in the apartment, she’d look outside but never attempted to escape. Kitty knew when and where every ray of sunshine was going to appear and you could find her in the precise spot—sleeping.

She was such a seductress that she even persuaded Joseph Lestrange to take her to a café.  I was against it but had zero say.  Kitty liked Paris and quickly understood why I so loved the City of Light where there was action and so many more people to make a fuss over her.

When I started needing to spend more time in the U.S., I found out what it was really like to spend money.  In order for her to have an E.U. passport, she needed to have a series of shots including rabies. After six months, she needed a blood test to show the shot had been effective. The regulations are constantly changing but those were the days when animals couldn’t be admitted to the U.K. unless they were quarantined for six months.

Then there was the obligatory identification chip that had to be inserted in her neck (90 Euros, merci) and the vets on both sides of the Atlantic knew they had an annuity since Kitty needed an international health certificate (how many stamps can you put on multiple copies of the same health form?) within ten days of traveling. When I heard my neighbor on the plane hack and sneeze, I wished the same criteria applied to humans as to our pampered pets.

Kitty crossed the Atlantic a minimum of 25 times. When United Airlines raised its fee to $250 EACH way, I would stay on the phone and tell the agent Kitty deserved frequent flyer miles not to mention a meal.  All I asked for was some ice in case she was thirsty.

The adage that pets become like their owners and vice versa is true.  Kitty would board a plane and immediately fall asleep and stay that way until we landed. Many people are allergic to cats, but no one ever complained about my furry companion since no one knew she was there.  I’d put a blanket loosely over her carrier and she wouldn’t even snore.

Kitty was accumulating a packet full of papers, instructions in French and in English, two vets and numerous caretakers to cover when I was traveling to Asia or places where she wasn’t welcome or would have been a prime catch for someone’s dinner.

Thank you Stacy, Riza, Jenny, Jonann (who’d send me a daily update about the princess complete with a photo) and Budd who became a second parent for this femme fatale feline. Budd and Kitty were so bonded that she’d go for walks with him in the hall of his apartment building.

Kitty died prematurely because she had feline AIDS and couldn’t fight off an infection. When I held her as she was going to sleep, she mumbled a meow. I’m certain it was with a slightly French accent.

To Kitty—thank you for being my friend and companion and I’ll miss you forever.  And to be sure, when we have our “conversations,” we’ll continue to discuss how you were able to get an E.U. passport and I wasn’t.

With love, July 27, 2009

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Karen@BonjourParis.com

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  • Madelyn

    Parisian Lover
    Francophile Dear Karen,
    As a cat lover , I am so sorry about the untimely loss of your beloved feline child Kitty.
    You were a loving mother - I know Kitty felt your love and devotion. Your kindness and generosity in adoping Kitty or in letting her Adopt you - was wonderful.
    you enhanced the quality of this little being's life - as I know she did yours.
    Thinking of you = with deepest sympathy.
  • Cindy Welch

    Parisian Lover 1 Comments
    They leave pawprints on your heart I can only affirm what everyone else has said. Your Kitty passed way too soon. I lost my sweet baby Noelle (14 years young) in April and everything was dark. We adopted Coco Noelle (5 years old) in July and she's already got us wrapped around her paw. We are her willing servants. You wrote a beautiful eulogy Karen and I hope you have a little furry chien sunning themselves again very soon. Our condolences to you and your family.
  • Karen Fawcett

    Parisian Lover 222 Comments
    How I would love a stand-in....

    But the reality is I do travel too much.... Plus my grandchildren are allergic. So Kitty will remain my true love. And she really was the best. Thank you (all) for the lovely messages. K
  • Claudia Dulmage

    Parisian Lover 2 Comments
    Feeling your pain As a long-time animal parent I really sympathize with you in your loss of what sounds like a truly remarkable feline. We foster and adopt rescued dogs and cats, and each one is precious and special. Letting go is always hard, but thank goodness for pictures and memories. Watch out, she may send you a stand-in!
  • Sylvia Nogaki

    Parisian Lover 4 Comments
    My condolences Judith is right -- they open our hearts in so many ways. Kitty was well-served by your heartfelt eulogy and I know she will be with you forever, in spirit. I'm realizing just how precious they are in our lives as I get ready to settle into Paris with my own cat, whose journey to France will be made easier by the tips you learned from caring for Kitty and passed on to me. Many thanks to you, and to Kitty.
  • awoodyar

    Parisian Lover 5 Comments
    Remembering Kitty in Provence, Kitty in Paris, Kitty in DC...lots of memories of beautiful places and memorable conversations with Kitty nearby, perhaps peering behind the roses in the garden, under the bed (where are you, kitty???) or relaxing in a sunny spot on the sofa. She's entwined with many special people and places and we'll miss her too!
  • Judith Reitman

    Parisian Lover 3 Comments
    They take the journey with you Animals arrive, like Kitty did, like my Sammy did seemingly from out of no where and then they stay. They've found their place and in return they open your heart. I wish I'd met Kitty. Beautiful eulogy Karen, with love from the hounds and me. Madame des chiens.
  • Rachel Stewart

    Parisian Lover 20 Comments
    Cat love I think that cats tiptoe and purr their way into our hearts and there's nothing to be done but love them in return. I know you will miss Kitty forever. This was a lovely eulogy.

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